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25 Questions That’ll Help You and Your Partner Have Better Sex
Sometimes, the right Qs can lead to the best Os.

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7 Ways to Connect With Your Sexuality When You’re Not Getting Laid
May we introduce you to the concept of a solo sex life?

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The Best Lube Is the One That Works for You. Here’s How to Find It
No ifs, ands, or butts about it.

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8 G-Spot Sex Positions That’ll Hit All the Right Angles
Say hello to deeper penetration (and an incredible orgasm).
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13 Hot, Steamy Reads You Won’t Be Able to Put Down, According to Experts
These romance novels know exactly how to tease you with flirty, dirty passion.
SexShop These Stellar Adam & Eve Vibrator Deals, Before They’re Gone
Save up to 75% on some of our favorite toys.
SexWhere to Buy the Best Sex Toys Online Right Now
Whether you’re just curious or want to grow your current collection.
Sex9 Expert-Approved Sex Toys on Sale at Lelo Right Now
Deals as satisfying as the products themselves.
SexHow to Choose the Right Strap-On, According to Sex Therapists
Finding the best fit is about more than just size.
Shopping16 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.
ShoppingWe Asked 10 Experts: Which Wand Vibrators Are Truly Worth the Hype?
Their answers may surprise you.
Shopping3 Sex Toys to Snag ASAP for a Spicy Valentine’s Day, According to Sex Therapists
Save the sweets and flowers for later.
Sex LoveVibrators 101: Everything You Need to Know (and the Expert-Approved Ones to Try)
We found beginner-friendly wands, bullets, and more.42 slides
ShoppingThe Best Rabbit Vibrator Is Actually a Snail
After weeks of testing, I can confirm: The hype is real.
ShoppingYou’re Gonna Want to Say Yes, Yes, YES to These Clitoral Vibrators
These suction, finger, and wand vibes are ready to show you a good time.27 slides

Relationships
Workplace Affairs Are More Common Than You’d Think. Here’s Why, According to Infidelity Experts
It’s not just CEOs at Coldplay concerts.
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Shopping
Great Lubes for Menopause, From Someone Who’s Tried More Than 100
Because dryness can be a real pain.

Sex
How to Sext With Confidence and Have a Hotter Relationship Because of It
Expert tips for coming up with ideas and keeping the convo rolling.
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Shopping
The Best Clitoral Vibrators, Whether You’re With a Partner or Flying Solo
The more, the merrier.

Shopping
The Best Lubes for Smooth Sailing Alone or With a Partner
Loved by both experts and shoppers.
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Sex
How to Use Temperature Play to Ignite Your Sex Life
Adding hot and cold sensations to the mix can go a long way.
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Sexual & Reproductive Health
Why Does It Burn When I Pee After Sex?
Doctors explain why doing the right thing can feel so painful in the moment.

Love
How to Take Nudes You’ll Actually Love, According to Boudoir Photographers
Your guide to snapping sexy photos of yourself and feeling great about them.

Sexual & Reproductive Health
How to Stop Queefing During the Worst Possible Moments
It’s a normal bodily function—but it can still be hella awkward.

Sex
Amazon Sells Thousands of Sex Toys—Here Are the Best Ones
Twenty-two expert-approved options that'll get you buzzing.

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These Are the 13 Anal Lubes Sex Experts Swear By
With options for beginners, sensitive skin, and more.
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Back to the grind
The Best Grinding Sex Toys For When You Feel Like Ridin’ Dirty
There are more ways to use them than you’d think.

Treasure chest
How to Have a Fantastic Nipple Orgasm Because, Yep, That’s a Thing
It’s all about making your boobs the main event—not the sideshow.

Buzz-worthy
This 3-in-1 Vibrator Makes It Easy to Switch It Up in Bed
I found a beginner-friendly wand that does (almost) everything.

Ex-streamly hot
17 Incredibly Sexy Movies You Can Watch on Hulu Right Now
Get ready to settle in for a titillating evening at home—alone or with a partner.

Oh my word
How to Talk Dirty During Sex Without Feeling Cringey
Experts offer ideas for things to say—plus tips for getting out of your own head in the moment.

Sex
7 People on Why They Chose to Be Celibate for a Spell
“This break ended up being a wake-up call: Most of the people I was seeing didn’t really care about my pleasure.”


Love
What to Do If You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Sex Drives
Your relationship isn’t doomed, but it’s important to address it to keep resentment from building up.

Who's a good girl?
Are You Seriously Turned On By Validation? Here’s How to Explore a Praise Kink in Bed
There’s nothing like a steady stream of compliments to make good sex fantastic.