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Julia Ries Wexler

Julia Ries Wexler is a writer for SELF, National Geographic, The Cut, Condé Nast Traveler, Outside Magazine, among other national media outlets. You can check out some of her work (and contact her) at www.juliarieswexler.com.

Sleep Doctors Swear By This Simple Morning Habit

It might take some practice, but your body will thank you.

Can You Ask If Someone’s Taking a GLP-1?

Here’s what not to say—and how not to say it.

How to Keep This Weekend’s Time Change From Wrecking Your Sleep

It’s not quite as simple as “gaining” an extra hour.

Move Over, Astrology—Meet ‘Human Design’

The influencers are onto a new divination.

Yes, You Can Probably Poop Better. Here’s How

A few small steps can make your toilet time smoother, faster, and more comfortable.

Why Do I Sometimes Sob Right in the Middle of My Peloton Workout?!

An explanation of why sweat isn’t always the only kind of waterworks in production.

Why Do I Feel Ridiculously Tired During My Period?

Turns out, there are plenty of things that can zap your energy levels during menstruation.

Everything You Need to Know About Ketamine Therapy

From what it actually is to whether it lives up to all the hype.

‘Worry Windows’ Got Me Through One of My Most Stressful Years

Scheduling time to stew might feel unnatural at first, but experts recommend it for a reason.

3 Things to Do When You Feel Like Everyone Else Is More Successful Than You

Spoiler alert: They’re probably not. But here’s how to resist the comparison trap.

6 People Who Found Love Without Dating Apps Share How They Did It

A little inspiration for anyone who is so sick of swiping.

Is Breaking Up Over Text Ever Okay?

Plus, what to keep in mind before you hit send.

I’m a Psychologist Who Used to Hate Winter—Here’s How to Learn to Love It

Make the countdown to spring way less miserable with a few expert tips.

3 Things to Do If You Really, Really Hate New Year’s Eve

2025 is coming whether you like it or not—here’s how to celebrate on your terms.

My HS Was So Painful I Could Barely Get Out of Bed. Here’s How the Right Treatment Gave Me My Life Back

“It became unmanageable. I couldn’t go to class and I’d have to sleep with a pillow in between my legs to find some comfort.”

How to Take Rejection Way Less Personally

The pain is real, but understanding it can stop you from spiraling.