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Why Guys With Older Sisters Are the Ultimate Green Flag
Say goodbye to momma’s boys—and hello to the brothers trained by their big sis.

Family
Your Mom Shouldn’t Be Your Best Friend
The reality is not as aspirational as Gilmore Girls makes it seem.

Family
50 Questions to Ask Your Dad That’ll Bring You Closer Than Ever
If “How’s work?” is the deepest you usually get, this list’s for you.

Family
5 Types of Toxic In-Laws—and How to Deal With Each
These expert tips will help you call out bad behavior without starting a family feud.

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Doing Nothing With Your Favorite People Is Really, Really Good for You
Unstructured hangs are a lost art. Here’s why we should bring them back.

Family
Why Do I Revert Back to My Moody Teenage Self Whenever I’m Around My Family?
Old dynamics die hard—especially if you’re still treated like a kid.

Family
If Your Mom Was Extra Hard on You So You Would “Have a Good Life,” Raise Your Hand
Whether she pressured you to get a certain job, look a certain way, or marry a certain kind of person, you’re in good company.

Life
What to Do If Your People-Focused Job Completely Drains Your Social Battery
These little strategies can help you preserve some energy for your loved ones—and yourself.

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How to Avoid Fighting With Your Family on Your Summer Vacation
Whether you’re going on a proper trip together or planning a hometown visit, here’s how to stay calm(ish).
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Life
3 Things to Do If You’re Terrified of Your Parent Dying
If watching them age is causing dark-thought spirals, here’s what a psychologist recommends.

Mental health
What to Do When You Lose Your Temper and Really Regret it
Feeling bad about your outburst might actually be a good thing.

Hold my calls
How to Recover When Socializing Has Totally Drained Your Battery
You don’t necessarily have to avoid other people to take a breather.

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What to Do When You’re Super Cranky and Hate Everyone
When the group chat ping instantly makes you irrationally irritated, it’s time to take a beat.

Life
3 Things to Do After an Incredibly Draining Family Visit
Even if you adore your relatives, it can all be A Lot.

“Shut your pie hole”
How to Respond to Relatives Who Feel the Need to Comment on Your Food and Body
A guide to gently (or firmly) telling people to mind their own business.

Pregnancy & Parenthood
Keke Palmer Got Real About the Pressure of Breastfeeding: It’s Been a ‘Doozy’
“It isn’t that easy. And if it is for you, wonderful. But I think more often than not, it’s difficult.”

Dementia
Bruce Willis’s Daughter Shared the Early Dementia Symptom His Family Missed
“I’ve known that something was wrong for a long time,” Tallulah wrote in an emotional essay.

Mental Health
I Want to Be a Good Dad. That Means Showing Up for Myself, Too
Here’s how I’m taking care of my mental health as a new father.

Entertainment
‘Keep Him Emotional’: Jane Fonda Has Some Advice for People Raising Sons
She discussed contending with mom guilt—and what she’s learned about being there for boys.

Mommy issues
12 Realistic Tips for Managing Mom Guilt, From Mothers Who Get It
“You don’t have to be everything to everyone all the time.”

Health
How to Cope With ‘Anticipatory Grief’ When a Loved One Is Dying
Knowing a loss is coming doesn’t make it any easier.

Family
Pedro Pascal Opens Up About Losing His Mother at Age 24
The actor felt “parental” toward his younger siblings as they all worked through grief.

Nuclear fission
6 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Cutting Off a Toxic Family Member
Therapist Nedra Tawwab wrote the book on the subject (literally).