Asking for a Friend
Miriam Kirmayer, PhD, a psychologist and leading friendship expert, offers advice and answers readers’ burning questions about navigating messy, complicated friendships. Submit your questions for Dr. Kirmayer here.
Asking for a Friend
My Ex-Friend Keeps Bad-Mouthing Me. What Do I Do?
Every time I think the drama’s over, someone new fills me in on what she’s said.
Asking for a Friend
My Friend’s Botox and Filler Look Terrible. Can I Say Something?
Hearing other people say she looks “botched” breaks my heart.
Asking for a Friend
My Friend Won’t Leave Her Cheating Partner—but Won’t Stop Complaining
Am I selfish for distancing myself until she finally ends things?
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My Friend Always Gets Free Stuff by Complaining to Managers—and It Gives Me the ‘Ick’
I feel bad for the servers…and even worse about our relationship.
Asking for a Friend
My Best Friend Keeps Ditching Me for Guys. Should I Call Her Out?
When she’s single, I’m her person. When she’s not? It’s like I don’t exist.
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My Friend Cut Me Off. How Can I Get Them to Forgive Me?
I ruined a great friendship over jealousy…and I’ve regretted it ever since.
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