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As the weather gets colder and the air gets drier, it’s a familiar (and frustrating) rite of passage for your lips to turn into a cracked, flaky mess. And the only relief, however temporary, seems to come from piling on layers of your most “hydrating” lip balm.
Ironically, though, you may have found that your lips somehow feel even more dehydrated after swiping or slathering. And so the cycle begins: reapply again…and again…and again. And when the long-lasting moisture you expected never comes, it’s natural to wonder: Are these balms, butters, and glosses making your cracked lips worse? According to Susan Massick, MD, board-certified dermatologist and associate professor of dermatology at the Ohio State University College of Medicine, the answer is kind of complicated.
Can your dry lips become dependent on lip balms?
The short answer: No. Your tube or chapstick likely isn’t some marketing ploy to keep you constantly reapplying (and repurchasing). “Using lip balm isn’t a true addiction or chemical dependency,” Dr. Massick says. “It’s also a myth that using it often will make it harder for your lips to retain moisture on its own.”
That said, reaching for your product every hour isn’t normal either. While there isn’t a strict guideline on how often to reapply, a good rule of thumb is to do it after you brush your teeth in the morning and before bedtime, Dr. Massick says. “You can also recoat after eating,” but you shouldn’t feel like you need to after every sip or bite.
So frequent reapplication likely means your particular product is causing some sort of irritation, which can happen for a few reasons. For one, a lot of them “contain ingredients that feel hydrating at first but are actually irritating in the long run,” she explains—like added fragrances, flavors, and essential oils. “These [ingredients] aren’t inherently drying, but they’re common triggers for anyone with sensitive skin or who’s prone to allergic reactions.” As a result, your lips might feel more inflamed—which may prompt you to keep reapplying for relief. However, it becomes a vicious cycle when you’re unknowingly loading up on the very thing that’s causing your dryness and flaking in the first place.
Other common offenders that can dry out your skin include camphor, eucalyptus, and menthol, often found in “medicated” balms. “[These] usually provide a temporary cooling or tingling sensation, which may feel good at first,” Dr. Massick says. However, they can be irritating, per the American Academy of Dermatology.
Not to mention, when your lips taste like vanilla or peppermint, it’s a common, subconscious habit to lick them. But, as Dr. Massick points out, “saliva isn’t a moisturizer.” In fact, it has the opposite effect: Not only can the digestive enzymes in your spit cause irritation, but when your lips constantly get wet—and then dry out—this can damage your skin barrier and lead to cracking.
Sometimes it’s not that your particular product has the “wrong” ingredients, but rather, it’s missing the “right” ones. A lot of balms contain humectants like glycerin and hyaluronic acid—which are great for pulling water into the skin. However, you need something to actually lock that moisture in—or else it’ll just evaporate, leaving your lips even drier.
That’s why Dr. Massick recommends ointments (versus classic balms or glosses) containing occlusives like petrolatum (in Vaseline and Aquaphor) and dimethicone. These thick ingredients seal the skin to trap moisture and prevent water loss. Even better, you can opt for something made with occlusives and humectants, such as Cerave’s Healing Ointment ($20).
Keep in mind, however, that even these derm-approved picks may still contain potential allergens, depending on your skin’s reactivity. “For instance, Aquaphor is made with lanolin, which some people are sensitive to,” Dr. Massick notes. That’s why it’s important to monitor any signs of a negative reaction, such as pain, swelling, burning, and itching. (In that case, wash the balm off immediately—and toss it out for good.)
Oh, and one last thing: Especially if you’re out and about in the sun, it’s worth going for an option with SPF (like any of these)—or layering an SPF balm under and over your other one. Like the rest of your skin, “your thin lips are also vulnerable to UV damage” Dr. Massick explains, and the sun’s powerful rays can absolutely worsen peeling and chapping—the last thing you need during these already drier, colder months.
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- Dry Skin vs. Dehydrated Skin: What’s the Difference?
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- 6 Skin-Care Mistakes That Are Making Your Dark Spots Worse
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